Once you’ve turned off your screens, you can commence a calming bedtime routine. “Wind down 30 minutes to an hour before bed,” advises Jay Velasco. “Be it with sound, silence or controlled breathing,” Velasco sees a wind-down routine as key to preparing for quality sleep. “Winding down will help you fall asleep faster by calming your mind and body.”
For Sleep Expert Victoria Graves, it helps to borrow from her kids’ routine. “As a parent, it's really hard to find time for yourself, let alone most other things in life. I used to have a structured bedtime routine for my kiddo but a scattered one for myself. My best piece of advice goes out to all you tired parents out there just trying to do your best and do it all! With so many things to take care of, don't forget to take care of yourself, too,” says Graves.
“The nice thing about bedtime routine is you can incorporate your kid's routine into yours,” Graves explains. “Spend that precious time relaxing together with a storybook or some soft sleep sounds after bath and jammies.” If you’ve wound down alongside your little one, resist the urge to tackle your to-do list once their lights are out. “Whatever it looks like for you, take that time to slow down and unwind yourself at the end of the day,” she urges. “Those dishes, laundry, etc. can wait until tomorrow, but your sleep cannot. And a consistent routine will help keep you and your family well rested and refreshed.”
For those who prefer their own routine, Graves suggests soft lighting, a calming candle, and a relaxing shower or bath, joking that it “can help relax the body and wash away the day's stress…or the fruit loop that’s been stuck in your hair since 9 a.m.”